Wednesday, November 4, 2009
Ignorance is an Occupational Hazard
Have you ever had one of those days? One where you have to tell
yourself that you're better than those around you or fall to pieces?
One where the words coming out of the mouths that surround you make your
mind blank while trying to understand the stupidity? I try to be a
person that values those people that I keep as company...someone who
holds myself to a high standard...unfortunately when at work you don't
always have that option. Every once in a while I stumble upon someone
who just amazes me with the level of ignorance they have encroached
upon. I'm not talking about the user who can't tell the difference
between logging into the computer and logging into email, or the user
who has their bank account name and password on a sticky note under
their keyboard. Those people are what keep my job going. I'm more
annoyed by the petty nonsense that comes out of no where for no apparent
reason. Complaints about little things like "your mail was in my
mailbox and I refuse to be responsible for what happens to it" are very
kindergarten "He put his crayon on my desk so threw it away" type of
mentality. It drives me INSANE! Or complaints about what happens in the
office of someone else.....or "hey I have this problem at home which
has absolutely nothing to do with this place or my job but I think you
should help me fix it." Not my problem people. So those are just my
two cents. Sorry if this makes little to no sense at all, but sometimes
a girl's gotta do what a girl's gotta do to make it in the modern
world!
Tuesday, September 15, 2009
Maternal Observations
Ever growing, ever changing, ever evolving. This is the nature of
humanity. Sometimes we are forced to step outside of ourselves and see
where we fit into this puzzle. Sometimes we are the leader, the one who
sets the path and marches to the beat of our own drum. Sometimes we are
the follower, listening desperately for the drum beat and rushing to
find the path that someone else has created. However, most of the time
we are actually the drum, responsible for setting the pace and creating
the beat, even when we have no clue what is going on. To successfully
navigate through this world, you have to be comfortable with all of
these roles, and knowing when you need to fill them. Becoming a mother
has changed my life more than anything in the world ever could. Never
before have I felt so loved and important, or so terrified and
incompetent. My son has truly shown me that sometimes I have to set the
path for him and show him what to do, but other times I have to follow
his lead, and he'll teach me how things work. I have no doubt in my mind
that he will grow to be an amazing man. I only hope that I can be half
as an amazing woman as he deserves to have as a mommy.
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